Tired of always being frustrated after having a conversation with your child? Do you miss those times when you felt closer with your child after spending time with them?

In this week’s VideoBlog, I answer a reader’s question about how she can change what she is doing in order to have better conversations with her daughter.

In the 10 minute video below, I teach you the LEAP system of talking with your child. I advise all of my clients to use this system, and they have reported back to me that after they use this system for a while, they have noticed a huge improvement in their relationship with their kids.

I even use this technique with my own kids – because it really works! Watch the video below and then let me know what you think.

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